Art of Classiness

EP38: Let’s Rewind to the 2000s: A Classy Flashback (Sort Of)

Burned CDs. Away messages. Mall lurks. Emotional warfare disguised as AIM status updates. This week, we’re taking a wildly nostalgic, and slightly traumatic, trip back to the early 2000s. From sleepovers and three-way calls to mall culture and teen movie tropes, we’re unpacking what friendship looked like during the era of side parts, glitter gel, and personality-defining eyeliner.
We dive into the sacred rituals of LiveJournal confessions, the coded language of Top 8 rankings, and the harsh social rules we all tried to survive. But beneath the nostalgia is a deeper conversation: how those formative years shaped our self-worth, emotional habits, and the way we show up in friendships today.
Whether you were full-on emo, low-key alt, or just trying to keep your ringtone under 30 seconds to save money, this one’s for you.
Let’s keep the nostalgia going:Follow us @artofclassiness on Instagram and TikTok, and share your favorite 2000s memories—bonus points for chaotic AIM screen names and your best burned CD titles.Submit your own stories for future episodes: artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP37: The TV That Raised Us: When Best Friends Aren’t the Best for You

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re digging into the moments that test even the closest friendships, when your best friend pulls away, misses the mark, or just flat-out lets you down.Through the lens of Girls, Sex and the City, and How I Met Your Mother, we explore how betrayal in friendship doesn’t always come with a blowout fight, it can show up in distance, denial, or silence.From navigating life transitions to quiet sabotage, we’re asking the big question: what do you do when the person you count on isn’t showing up for you anymore?
Join us for honest reflections, hard truths, and a reminder that being classy doesn’t mean being perfect, it means learning how to repair, rebuild, and sometimes, release. 
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes: artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP36: 'Am I the A*Hole': Judging Other People’s Drama (So You Don’t Have To)

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into the wonderfully messy world of the Am I The Asshole subreddit. From secret recordings that blow up weddings, to surprise houseguests who overstep big time, to navigating friendships with former flings, these stories are packed with awkward tension and moral gray areas.
We’re breaking down who crossed the line, who needs a reality check, and where boundaries and loyalty get hilariously tangled. Plus: is it ever okay to keep a secret from your partner if it’s “for their own good”? Or to prioritize your friend’s comfort over someone’s privacy? We’ve got opinions.
Listen along as we play judge and jury with plenty of laughs and just a touch of side-eye. And let us know: who do you think was actually in the wrong?
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AITA for recording my friend's fiance at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him?
 
AITA for sending my friends home after bringing their kids after I asked them not to
 
AITH for being friends with someone I slept with in the past?
 
AITA for not telling my boyfriend about a surprise birthday dinner his mom is planning, even though he hates surprises (and we just fought about hiding things)?
 
Quick disclaimer, friends — we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP35: The Classy Commandments: 10 Friendship Rules to Live By

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re laying down our personal, slightly sacred guide to friendship—aka our “Classy Commandments.” From canceling plans without guilt to speaking in chaotic voice memos, protecting each other’s soft spots, and dreaming about our future friend compound, these are the rules that keep our relationships strong, real, and joyfully unhinged.
We’re sharing what we’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) about midlife friendships—how they evolve, how to keep them close, and why a little bit of cringe is actually the glue.
Join us for laughs, low-key therapy moments, and some well-earned reminders that showing up (even in leggings) is what true classiness looks like.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP34: When Classy Gets Messy: Our Most Embarrassing Stories

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re peeling back the curtain on our most mortifying moments, plus reading some absolutely chaotic stories from listeners who were kind enough to share their own disasters. From falling asleep mid-pee at a Cowboys game to getting sniped by a bidet, dodging police lights with your pants down, and receiving a very unexpected voicemail from karma itself... this episode is proof that no one is above a truly embarrassing story.
Laugh with us (or at us) as we celebrate the messy, human, totally unclassy moments that make for the best tales later on.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP33: From Wild Nights to Chill Vibes: Navigating the Shift in Social Plans After 30

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we explore a relatable topic: the decline of social stamina as we age. What once felt effortless—like 9 PM concert starts or last-minute bar crawls—now requires mental prep, naps, and a solid plan.
Join us as we dive into why we’ve shifted from spontaneous nights out to carefully-planned hangs, and how we can reclaim our social energy without completely losing our comfort zones. From small acts of spontaneity to leaning into the joys of low-pressure plans, we share how to get your friendship mojo back while maintaining your sanity.
Let’s talk about the balance between personal growth and staying connected, and how you can still keep the fun alive in your friendships after 30.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP32: 'Am I the A*Hole': We Need to Talk About Weddings (And Who’s Really the Problem)

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we tackle some of the most controversial wedding-related AITA stories. From family dynamics and hurt feelings to navigating difficult wedding decisions, we explore the dilemmas that arise when personal boundaries, expectations, and family drama collide.
Join us as we break down four real-life stories — including the choice to skip a sibling’s wedding, a sisterly dress dilemma, and wedding venue disputes — and ask the tough question: who’s in the wrong?
We’ll dive into why these situations are so complicated, what they reveal about family loyalty and personal boundaries, and what makes these choices either classy or crass.Whether you’re navigating your own wedding challenges or simply enjoying the drama from the sidelines, this episode offers insights and some much-needed perspective on handling the messiest moments with grace.
 
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP31: The Art of the Relationship Launch: Meeting Your Partner’s Friends (and Vice Versa)

Starting a new relationship is thrilling—but introducing them to your carefully curated circle of friends? That’s an entirely different game. In this episode, we’ll guide you through the art of seamlessly weaving your partner into your social fabric (and how to handle it if the vibes are… complicated).
Whether you’re the one bringing your new love to the group chat or you’re the friend group welcoming the fresh face, we’re covering everything you need to navigate this milestone with class. From first impressions to the awkward “do we even like each other?” phase, we’re here to make sure everyone feels seen, respected, and genuinely welcomed.
Listen in for:
The psychology of introducing your partner to your friends (and why it matters)
Tips to make first impressions shine — without losing your authenticity
How to handle red flags, friend group drama, and that dreaded feeling when the vibes are off
Real talk about what to do if it’s not clicking — or if you’re the friend feeling protective
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP30: Reality TV and Emotional Intelligence: Why We Can’t Look Away

In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers of reality TV... the shows we love to call “trash,” but can’t stop watching. From Love Is Blind to Vanderpump Rules, we’re exploring why these chaotic storylines hook us, what they reveal about our own friendships, and how they shape the way we navigate loyalty, jealousy, and vulnerability.
We’ll unpack why these stories feel so real, how they mirror our own group chats, and what it means to watch them with emotional intelligence. Not just as entertainment, but as an unexpected window into human nature.
Join us as we break down the archetypes we see onscreen and in real life, spot friendship red and green flags, and explore why analyzing the drama is anything but shallow.
If you’ve ever found yourself cringing at a reunion episode or rooting for the underdog in a group meltdown, this episode is for you. Because sometimes, the messiest shows can be the best teachers.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP29: Why Work Friendships Feel So Intense — And What to Do When They Don’t Last

We’re diving into the world of office BFFs, coffee run confidants, and that work bestie who might just be your real bestie… or not. In this episode, we’re talking all about work friendships — why they form so fast, what happens when promotions or quitting throw them for a loop, and how to tell the difference between a forever friend and a proximity pal.
We’ll share real-life stories of friendships that survived (or didn’t) beyond the break room, the messy emotions that can come up, and our best tips for keeping things classy when work drama hits.
Whether you’re a Slack queen, a lunchroom gossip, or just trying to figure out if your office buddy is really your ride-or-die, this episode is for you.
What you'll learn:
The psychology behind why work friends feel so intense.
How to handle it when your friend gets promoted… or ghosts you after quitting.
The do’s and don’ts of navigating work friendships — without calling HR.
Tips to keep things supportive, healthy, and genuinely connected.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
 
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!