Art of Classiness

EP24: 'Am I the A*Hole': Navigating Friendship Friction

What happens when your friend never has time for you—but still expects you to wait around? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we're diving into real friendship dilemmas from Reddit’s “Am I The A-Hole” thread. From calling out flaky behavior to navigating post-divorce boundaries, we’re unpacking the moments where friendship etiquette gets complicated.
What You’ll Learn:
When it’s okay to walk away from a one-sided friendship
How to give feedback without being a jerk
Why setting expectations isn’t the same as being passive-aggressive
When it’s better to accept quirks vs. when to speak up
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
 
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AITA for telling my friend she can get back in touch when she stops being perpetually busy?
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AITA for telling my friend her “quirky” behavior is just being rude?
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AITA for refusing to share my streaming after my friend cancelled hers to save money?
31:13
AITA for insulting my friend
 
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP23: Living with Your Best Friend: Tips, Truths, and What to Expect

Living with your best friend might sound like a 24/7 sleepover dream—but what happens when someone leaves dishes in the sink or hogs the bathroom mirror? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re exploring the beautiful chaos of bestie roommates, and how to navigate friendship and cohabitation without losing your mind (or your bond).
What You’ll Learn:
The pros and cons of living with your closest friend
How to spot red flags before you move in together
Common roommate conflicts—and how to resolve them with grace
Why friendship dynamics shift when you share a home
How to set boundaries without hurting feelings
Tips to keep the friendship fun, respectful, and drama-free
If you’ve ever dreamed of living with your bestie—or you’re currently knee-deep in a passive-aggressive post-it war—this one’s for you.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP22: When Burnout Makes You a Bad Friend (And What to Do About It)

Burnout doesn’t just affect your job—it affects your friendships, too. In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional exhaustion so many millennials are feeling, and how it quietly reshapes our social lives.
What You’ll Learn:
Why burnout makes it hard to show up for friends (and why that’s okay)
Signs you're in a friendship burnout loop
How to reconnect without overwhelming yourself
Tips for being a good friend when your tank is low
Why honest conversations about capacity might save your friendships
Did you know?84% of millennials report experiencing burnout at their current job, with nearly half citing it as a major reason for leaving.(Source: Deloitte Millennial Survey, 2022)
If you've ever canceled plans for the fifth time and still felt bad about it—or wondered if your friendships are fading because you're too tired to text back—this one’s for you.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness
Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
 
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP21: Golden Retriever, Black Cat, or Chaos Goblin: The 3 Friendship Types Explained

Ever wondered what kind of friend you are—or how your bestie would be classified in the wild world of friendship dynamics? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the viral friendship personalities: Golden Retriever, Black Cat, and Chaos Goblin.
What You’ll Learn:
What each friendship archetype really means
How to identify the Golden Retrievers, Black Cats, and Chaos Goblins in your life
What makes these dynamics work—and when they clash
Real-life examples and friendship combos that just make sense
How to celebrate and embrace your friendship style (chaos and all)
Whether you're the loyal ride-or-die, the mysterious slow-to-warm introvert, or the chaotic friend who shows up in a disco helmet and Crocs—there’s a place for all of us at the table.
Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness
Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP20: 'Am I the A*Hole': Boundaries, Betrayals & Birthday Blunders

Friendship etiquette isn’t always black and white—and sometimes, it’s wildly messy. In this episode we’re diving into real “Am I The A-Hole?” stories where boundaries, expectations, and social norms clash in surprising ways. From strict house rules to awkward birthday energy, we’re weighing in and calling out what’s classy… and what’s not.
If you've ever been caught in a friendship gray area and wondered, “Am I in the wrong… or are they just being weird?”—this episode is for you.
Join the conversation, and don’t forget to send us your own friendship stories, dilemmas, or Class Act of the Week at artofclassiness@gmail.com
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AITA for encouraging our friend group to stop visiting a friend due to their house rules
 
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AITA Best Friend’s Girlfriend Won’t Let Me Watch Him Open My Gift
 
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AITA for refusing to help my best friend with her wedding because she didn’t make me a bridesmaid?
 
30:37
AITA for Trying to Help My Friend with Her Resume?
 
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

Art of Classiness Introduction

Hey there! Welcome to the Art of Classiness podcast, where we dive into the world of friendships with a sprinkle of humor, a dash of honesty, and a whole lot of class. Whether you're figuring out how to keep your besties around for the long haul or managing the awkward 'did that just happen?' moments, we're here to help you master the art of friendship. Join us as we tackle the big questions, navigate those awkward phases, and of course, celebrate all things classy (or at least give it a try!). From setting boundaries to understanding the intricacies of changing friendships, grab a cup of tea and let's spill together.  If connecting with your girl squad and forging lasting relationships is your jam, then buckle up, subscribe, and let's embark on this friendship journey together. All aboard for a fun, insightful ride into the friendships that make life oh-so-special! 

EP19: The Ripple Effect: How Divorce Affects Friendships and How to Cope

Breakups and divorces don’t just impact romantic relationships—they change friendships, too. Have you ever lost a friend in the split, struggled to support someone through heartbreak, or felt like your friendship dynamic was never the same? In this episode, we’re breaking down how breakups reshape friendships, how to navigate these shifts, and how to be there for a friend without losing yourself in the process.
What You'll Learn:
How breakups and divorces affect friendships over time
The challenges of mutual friends, shifting dynamics, and emotional burnout
Ways to support a friend through heartbreak without overextending yourself
When to set boundaries and when to let go of a friendship
How friendships evolve in the first year post-breakup
We Want to Hear From You!Have you navigated a friendship shift after a breakup or divorce? Send us your stories, Class Act of the Week, or Class or Crass scenarios at artofclassiness@gmail.com.Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!
 

EP18: Why Some Friendships Feels Unbalanced (And How Love Languages Can Help)

Are You Speaking Your Friend’s Love Language?
We always hear about love languages in dating, but what about friendships? If you’ve ever felt unappreciated in a friendship—or wondered why your friendships sometimes feel unbalanced—this episode is for you.
We’re breaking down:
Why friendships can feel off – Is your friend not showing up for you, or are they showing love in a way you don’t recognize?
The 5 Love Languages in friendship – How each one looks in a platonic relationship, common misunderstandings, and how to adjust.
Giving vs. Receiving Love Languages – Why the way you show love might not be the way you prefer to receive it.
Love Language mismatches – What to do when your way of expressing love doesn’t align with your friend’s.
Long-distance friendships – How to show love and appreciation when you’re miles apart.
Why friendships deserve the same effort as romantic relationships – And how small changes can make your friendships stronger.
Plus, we’re challenging you to put this into action:
CTA: Ask your best friend what makes them feel most appreciated—then do it for them this week!
Bonus Challenge: Make it a fun activity—guess each other’s love languages and reflect on past experiences.
Tune in as we unpack why love languages matter in friendships and how to make sure your closest people feel truly valued.
Connect with us on Instagram: @artofclassinessSubmit your own friendship meet-cutes, Class Act stories, and Class or Crass scenarios for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.comQuick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP17: From War Elephants to Espionage: The Untold Stories of Women in History

History often remembers kings, conquerors, and lone heroes—but what about the women who led revolutions, defied empires, and changed history forever? This International Women’s Day, we’re diving into the untold stories of legendary female warriors and spies who refused to wait for permission.
Join us as we uncover the awe-inspiring tales of:The Trung Sisters – Two Vietnamese warrior queens who led an 80,000-person army (yes, on war elephants!) to overthrow the Han Dynasty.Pearl Witherington & Lise de Baissac – Special Operations Executive (SOE) agents who parachuted into Nazi-occupied France to sabotage the enemy and lead resistance fighters.The women of history that textbooks forgot—and why their legacies matter more than ever.
Along the way, we also tackle fun facts about badass women in history, plus a special Class Act of the Week featuring a real-life love story 45 years in the making.
Tune in for: - Jaw-dropping war stories of female revolutionaries- The power of women supporting women in battle and beyond- A debate: Is posting a group photo where only you look good classy or crass?- A heartwarming love story decades in the making
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review! Share this episode with someone who needs a reminder that women have always been unstoppable.
Connect with us on Instagram: @artofclassinessSubmit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

EP16: 'Am I the A*Hole' Stories: Friendships Gone Wrong

Friendship isn’t always smooth sailing—misunderstandings, crossed boundaries, and straight-up chaos can test even the strongest bonds. In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into real "Am I The A-Hole?" friendship dilemmas, breaking down the drama, and deciding who’s right, who’s wrong, and who’s just being messy.
What You’ll Learn:
How to navigate tricky friendship situations with grace
When to call out bad behavior and when to let things go
The unspoken rules of friendship etiquette
Real-life examples of friendship red flags and how to handle them
If you've ever wondered, "Am I overreacting, or is my friend actually out of line?"—this episode is for you.
Join the conversation—tell us what you think, and don’t forget to subscribe for more monthly AITA debates!
Connect with us on Instagram: @artofclassiness
Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com
 
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AITA for telling my friend I won't be inviting her out anymore?
 
00:16:22
AITA for "ruining" my friends vacation?
 
00:26:37
AITA for telling my friend she has to stop punishing me for what her bf did?
 
00:36:11
AITA for not telling my best friend that I’ve been married for years
 
Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!